2014 - Bring It On

I think I'm glad to see 2013 move on into history.  I'm not usually one to wish time away, or particularly want time to move on.  But this year has been so strange.  Not in a horrible way, like someone has died...well, I did lose an Uncle...but more in a sometimes scary, lots of sickness kind of way.  But good can come with the bad right?   And, we are suppose to take the bad with the good, right?

  I haven't blogged since July....

August and September were scary months for me...a serious illness wanted to take me out...but I overcame.  God healed me...yes, I do believe it was a miracle...He was there...so close....I could feel Him.  When time is right, I'll tell that story.   The rest of this year has been spent recovering, being thankful for my family, being thankful for being here, being thankful to be here for Christmas.  If I've learned anything from this past year, it's thankfulness...gratitude.

My focus for 2014 is my health, and my relationships...with family, friends, co-workers.  That's all...no big New Year's resolutions...which I never keep anyway. 

I want to take a different direction with my blog.  I'm not completely sure what that is yet.  I'll figure it out as I go.  Until then...  HAPPY NEW YEAR!  Welcome 2014!

For the Love

Scarlett Love

Is there anything sweeter than a new baby?

Welcome to the world, dear one...

 

Daddy and baby girl

 

 



First Day.... and I cannot figure out why this picture is turned sideways?

 

 

 

Scarlett the Princess

 

 

Papa Bear

 





July and Random Thoughts

I've come to realization that I cannot seem to find the time to blog, at least in the manner and with the frequency that I once blogged.  I don't know if my muse has left me, or if its just a matter of time and too many other commitments.  I think its the latter, because I often feel that muse still there, and I'll think, "Oh that would make a great blog post!" and then I just don't get around to it. 

Its July already.  Its been a busy summer in our household.  Hubby and I have taken a couple of trips.  In May we headed down to Savannah, a city we both have deep ties too.  Last month we headed down to St Simons Island, a place where I spent so many summers of my childhood.  I simply must get to my island at least once or twice a year, to maintain my general mental and emotional health.    I have lots of pics to share from both places, and I'll try to get those posted here in the next few days.

We've also been busy with college planning.  Our youngest heads to the University of North Georgia in August.  Lots to do getting him ready to start.

Our second granddaughter arrives next week!  If not before!  We're excited to meet our newest addition.  Our home has been a flurry of activity with baby showers, and getting an extra bedroom converted into a sweet nursery for both of our baby girls.  I could post before and after pics of that too, right?  Although I haven't taken any before shots...before the gorgeous new paint color.  Castle Path by Sherwin Williams. 

Which reminds me...I read so many beautiful blogs about decorating, interior design, and renovations.  I love that stuff.  But I always feel so overwhelmed when I look at what other favorite bloggers are doing.  I feel like I put more pressure on myself when I look at what others have done, and feel the need to do it myself.  Does that make sense?  Pinterest does that too me too.  Although I love it.

Anyway...just random thoughts...  Happy Summer!  The 4th of July is here.  We'll spend it at the Lake, having cookouts, boating and swimming, the golf cart parade, and the kid's fishing tournament.  This year our darling Lena will participate for the first time in the kid's fishing tournament.  Her daddy will bait  her hook but I'll be there with my camera.  Another blog post, right?

See...its all there.  I just gotta get it posted.

A Milestone Day?

I don't know...is it?  Is it a milestone day when you realize this may very well be the last morning you drag a boy out of bed, make his breakfast, and send him off to school?

For 27 or so years I've been waking up a little boy or two little boys, in the early morning hours, making sure they had a good breakfast and got dressed, dropped them off at school or at daycare, and headed to work myself.  When Nicholas grew up and moved out, Neil was still at home, in middle school, and life moved on as usual, just with one less boy under the roof.

Today is Neil's very last day of school, as a high school senior.  He is my last boy at home.  As I sat in the early morning darkness, enjoying my quiet time and coffee, before all the "rise and shine" activity, I realized this could be a momentous day in my life.  No longer will I be waking a sleepy child to get to school on time.  How much longer will Neil be at  home before he discovers college roommates and trying it "on his own?"

I must admit, the thought of a slower, quieter morning sounds, well, very nice.  But the thought of some how being less needed...I'm having to get use to that thought.

Wow....

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Winter. Please.

GO AWAY!!

We've had enough.

Now...be gone!

This has been a long, wet, hard winter.

In our house, we've

had the flu,

had pneumonia..still trying to recover,

lost a dear friend,

and are saying goodbye to sweet, dear uncle.

Time changes this weekend.

With it I hope comes Spring...quickly.

I need the

Beach,

a Margarita...

and a cupcake.

Hurry June.

I've Got It!

I've learned to avoid lofty New Year's resolutions. 

Rarely do I complete them,

and I really don't do disappointment real well, when I look back at the end of the year,

only to check off all those well intended resolutions that I didn't meet. 

Sure, I could resolve to do all those reasonable things,

like lose weight (which I need to do...badly).

Or, be a better mom,

Or be more patient,

Or practice one act of kindness every day.

But, aren't those the kind of things we do each day, anyway?

 

So, I decided to simplify my resolutions, and have just one;

one very simple resolution...

 

HAVE FUN!

Yes! Have more fun...laugh, and look for fun and every opportunity to seize it.

Hopefully this will not get me into too much trouble.

 

 

Sounds simple enough....

 

Well... maybe just one more thing...

Greece.  Visit Greece.

My brother lives there,

and has begged me for years to come visit him.

I think I will resolve to work hard to save my money,

and plan a trip to see him.

This is his view from his apartment in Athens.

 

 

 Fun...and Greece. 

Think I'll be disappointed?



A New Year

Tonight is New Year's Eve.

I have BIG plans!

I plan to spend the evening browsing Home Depot.

And, purchasing a new area rug for my dining room.

I'll be starting this new book....

And, popping open a bottle of my favorite red...

I know...

My life is so exciting.

Please don't hate me.

Seriously y'all...

I'm exhausted.

I've had a house full of guests since the weekend before Christmas.

Thank goodness, they all finally went home this past weekend.

But, I have more guests arriving this next weekend.

I should get the "World's Best Hostess" award.

All this festivity is killing me.

Happy New Year!

Happy New Beginnings!

Christmas Wonder

 

There's nothing like a little child at Christmas,

is there?

This is our lovely little Lena.

As we wind down, and approach the beauty

of Christms Day,

I wish for us all the wonder of Christmas,

as seen through the eyes of a child.

Peace.  Love.  Joy. Amazement.



Merry Christmas

                                                                        from Garden and Gun

From my little corner of the South,

Merry Christmas.....

Christmas snuck up on me this year.

Like a mischevious child, sneeking up from behind,

shouting "Boo!"

The planner, always wanting to be prepared.

part of me is in a tizzy.

Final presents to purchase,

and wrap,

and menus to plan,

and food to purchase,

and cook,

guest room preparations to make...

all these things swirl around in my head,

this week before Christmas.

Then there is the one thing...

that looms over it all,

the great sadness of those families

in Conneticut.

I imagine the presents under the trees,

and presents yet to be wrapped,

who's receipient is missing.

And, my heart breaks.....

Why should I be in a tizzy? 

I wanted to blog about my home decorations,

family celebrations, meals and recipes.

But I can't...it doesn't seem right for me right now.

My Christmas wish is for comfort for the children and adults of Newtown,

peace for us all,

a friend for each of us,

and to love and be loved.

"Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you.

I do not give to you as the world gives.

Do not let your hearts be troubled.

Do not be afraid."

JC

Helen & Charlie

I am absolutely intrigued

by this photo.

Its a photo taken in 1919,

Helen Keller meeting Charlie Chaplin.

Just think about that for a moment.....

I love how he has taken off his hat.

And, how her fingers seem to be touching his moustache.

He appears to be smiling,

and there is just the faintest hint of a smile on Helen's face.

I love it.

Red & Black

Its a big game for my Dawgs tomorrow.

The SEC championship game.

And, if we can beat Alabama...

We head to the National Championship!

GO DAWGS!

As a little girl,

my daddy made sure to raise me as a Georgia Bulldawg fan.

He took me to games,

"between the hedges."

I remember one game specifically.

I must have been about 12 years old.

It was cold, it was windy, it was rainy...

but we yelled and screamed,

and cheered on our Dawgs.

Today, I'm blessed

that my 85 year old daddy and I still love

watching the Dawgs together.

Daddy doesn't make it to the games anymore.

But he never misses a Saturday the Dawgs are on TV.

My daddy gets all the credit for making me the

football fanatic I am today. 

My absolute favorite part of Fall...Football.

But most especially college football.

Even more...SEC football.

But the mostest...my beloved Georgia Bulldawgs.

I sure hope we win tomorrow.

It would be a special special day for my Daddy...

and for all the Bulldawg Nation.

Our hopes are high.

Our excitement is over the moon.

GO DAWGS!!

Thanksgiving Day

One of the things I'm always hoping for,

on Thanksgiving Day,

is beautiful weather.

In Georgia, every so often on Thanksgiving,

we're blessed with a warm and sunny day.

When that happens,

I like to throw open the back door,

and set up a table on the deck.

Our deck is off our dining room,

so its easy to just extend the dining area

outside.

I'm really hoping for a nice 70 degree day this year.

I already have a tablescape of sorts,

on the dining table.

But, if by chance I can also set up a table outside,

look at these gorgeous tablescapes I found on Google....

I love the natural elements.

And, the green glassware reminds me of my Granny.

I'll have about 15 people at my house on Thanksgiving Day,

so to extend the dining room to the outside would be perfect.

I have a lot to be thankful for this year.

Its been a challenging year at times,

with a wedding, the loss of a sweet family pet,

several major and unexpected home repairs,

and at this very moment...two days before Thanksgiving...

new flooring being installed over a majority of our house.

But, I'm thankful for those new, badly needed floors.

Happy Thanksgiving.

Today, in 1863

November 19, 1863,

President Abraham Lincoln delivered his famous two minute speech

the Gettysburg Address,

dedicating the National Cemetary at the battlefield

of Gettysburg.

There were actually five copies of Lincoln's speech.

Contrary to legend, Lincoln wrote his speech a day or so before the address,

while still in Washington DC.

He revised it later,before the cemetary dedication,

while staying at the home of a local attorney,

David Wills.

Later he penned three more copies of his address,

to autograph and provide to acquaintances.

Interestingly, in several of the later copies,

Lincoln removed the name of God,

where he had originally penned it,

near the end of the speech,

when referring to "this nation under God..."

However, historians tell us that there were many accounts

stating Lincoln did indeed use the name of God

when delivering the address.

One hundred and forty nine years ago today....

To me, one of the most profound lines in the address is:

"The world will little note nor long remember what we say here, but it can never forget what they did here."

Little did we know....

Thousands of children, like myself, would memorize this famous 272 word speech,

long remembering what was said there on that Dedication Day.

Lincoln's Gettysburg Address

"Four score and seven years ago our fathers brought forth on this continent a new nation, conceived in liberty and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal.

Now we are engaged in a great civil war, testing whether that nation or any nation so conceived and so dedicated can long endure. We are met on a great battlefield of that war. We have come to dedicate a portion of that field as a final resting-place for those who here gave their lives that that nation might live. It is altogether fitting and proper that we should do this. But in a larger sense, we cannot dedicate, we cannot consecrate, we cannot hallow this ground. The brave men, living and dead who struggled here have consecrated it far above our poor power to add or detract. The world will little note nor long remember what we say here, but it can never forget what they did here.
It is for us the living rather to be dedicated here to the unfinished work which they who fought here have thus far so nobly advanced. It is rather for us to be here dedicated to the great task remaining before us--that from these honored dead we take increased devotion to that cause for which they gave the last full measure of devotion--that we here highly resolve that these dead shall not have died in vain, that this nation under God shall have a new birth of freedom, and that government of the people, by the people, for the people shall not perish from the earth."

Info gathered from the National Park Service.

This photo, taken at Gettysburg is one of only few rare known photos of President Lincoln.

Fall Weather and Chicken Perloo

As much as I love Summer, I have to admit, I love Fall too. Something about the cooler temperatures, football games, wood smoke, and the mountains painted with brilliant colors makes me feel all cozy inside. Ultimately it leads me to comfort foods.

I grew up spending weeks in the spring and summer traveling between Athens, Savannah, and Gainesville. Having family in all those areas, I was priviledged, blessed really, to an exposure of different regional foods. My paternal grandmother exposed me to all things Athens and central and southern Georgia. My maternal grandmother and great grandmother exposed me to Coastal Georgia and Lowcountry foods. My mom and aunts taught me early on of those wonderful dishes coming out of the farmlands and foothills of North Georgia.

But... when I want a simple, one pot, warm and cozy comfort food, I remember Great Granny's Chicken Perloo. Perloo is a lowcountry dish, made of basics...rice, chicken, pork, savory seasonings. Perloo is actually the gullah pronounciation of the word "pilau," a dish that originated with the people of the gullah nation. The folks north of Savannah and Charleston probably use the "proper" pronounciation, Chicken Pilau. But I prefer the old term my Granny and Mama used, "perloo." Another spelling is "perlo." Recipes for Chicken Perloo are as varied as the pronounciation. Some are simple, like my family's. Others are all gussied up with herbs, olive oil, mushrooms and peppers. I like mine simple. Here's the recipe as I remember it from my Mama, Granny, and Great Granny.

1 fryer chicken, cut up

4 - 5 cups water

Salt, pepper, chicken boullion cubes or poultry seasoning

1 lb. country ham, or thick bacon (later my mom started using polish sausage as a substitute)

1 - 2 tablespoons vegetable oil

1 large or 2 small onions, chopped

1 - 2 stalks celery, chopped

2 cups white rice

(Optional - 1 chopped tomato, chopped bell pepper)

Place chicken in a large dutch oven, or soup pan as my mama would say, cover with the water, season well with salt, pepper, a couple of chicken boullion cubes or poultry seasoning. Bring to a simmer and cook chicken 20-30 minutes until done .

Remove chicken from broth, saving the broth, and set chicken aside to cool. When cool enough to handle, skin and debone, and shred or cut up chicken. Add the chicken back to the broth.

In a large fry pan, heat the tablespoon or two of vegetable oil. Add cubed country ham or bacon and cook until crispy. Remove pork from the pan and add the chopped onion and celery, adding a bit more oil if needed to prevent veggies from sticking. Cook veggies until tender and translucent. Add pork and veggies to the broth and chicken. Bring to a boil.

When broth begins to boil, add the rice. Stir well. Reduce heat to low, cover, and simmer slowly until rice is cooked and water is absorbed. Stir occasionally and taste for seasoning. Add salt and pepper if desired.

Final thoughts....

** Many recipes will call for pouring the broth into another container and setting aside. Use the same dutch oven or soup pan to brown the pork and saute the onion and celery. Then, pouring the broth back over the veggies. My family always cooked the pork and sauted the veggies in a large fry pan, then deglazed with a bit of broth, adding it all back to the broth.

** Sometimes Mama or Granny would add chopped tomato to the mix after everything was combined back into the broth. Sometimes they even added chopped green pepper to the onion and celery.

** Polish sausage is a nice hearty substitute for ham or bacon. In fact, I prefer it. If you use polish sausage, you'll want to slice in about quarter inch rounds.

Chicken Perloo ~~ takes me back to Savannah and my island everytime.

My One & Only Political Post

Its the day after...

and

in the words of a friend....

"Whether or not your sociopath won or lost, be kind to your neighbors today, buy from local businesses, tip well, manage your health, and don't be a jackass. You know.... things that will actually change the world." JE

Stay calm, and move on.  Cheers.

Happy Birthday Julia

"Life itself is the proper binge."

Julia Child would have been 100 years old today.

As far back as I can remember,

in the deepest depths of my memory,

I remember watching Julia's cooking show,

with my Mama.

How can we ever forget that distinctive voice,

her charm, her wit, her humor.

No, they don't make 'em like Julia anymore.

As a very young bride, it was Julia,

who taught me a love for cooking,

the proper way to roast a bird,

and dared me to attempt Creme Brulee.

I would hear her voice in my head,

and I learned my way around my new kitchen,

teaching me how to use various utensils and kitchen tools.

I wonder just how many cooks are out there today

that were influenced by her. 

Those such as myself.

that grew up watching, listening, absorbing

Julia's teachings.

Surely there must be thousands.

Happy Birthday Julia. 

There will never be another like you.

How Did This Happen So Fast

He went from this....

To this.....

He agreed to pose for me this morning...by the fireplace

Not with his bookbag,

but with his dog instead.

Today my baby becomes a senior in high school.

I've had three seniors before him.

But he's always been the baby.

How did it happen so fast?

That he grew up, right in front me, and I'm not sure I saw it coming.

He went from being a wild and crazy "Dennis the Menace" type of boy,

full of mischief, adventure, curiosity...oh the never ending curiosity, which

often left a path of destruction in his wake;

To being funny, sweet, sensitive, gentle, shy,

and oh so smart.

He went from taking apart vacumn cleaners and lawn mowers,

to writing music, recording songs, and painting pictures.

He has so much waiting for him...so much ahead of him.

This child...my child from another planet. 

I cannot wait to see what he does with this amazing, incredible life.

But, I think, whatever he does, nothing will surprise me.

This child from another planet.

Peaches & Blueberries

July in Georgia brings peaches, and blueberries.

Two of my favorite fruits, and

two of my favorite fruits to eat together. 

Peaches and Blueberries go together in the most delightful way.

Our little town holds a local Farmer's Market, during the season,

on our little town square every Friday.

This past Friday I loaded up on peaches and blueberries.

I wandered among the tables and booths,

set up with all sorts of garden delights.

It was hard to pass up the jars of honey,

baskets of tomatoes, and fresh corn.

But, I went that day with peaches on my mind.

Then the blueberries woo'd me and I couldn't resist.

This past Sunday, my family gathered for one of our favorite

summertime suppers....

Low Country Boil

Fried Green Tomatoes

Hushpuppies

and I made a Peach with Blueberries Crisp.

Its a crazy simple recipe,

one long inheirited from my Mama.

I'm bettin' every southern girl has this recipe, or a variation of it.

PEACH CRISP

(I just added a couple of handfuls of blueberries, for good measure.)

For a 9x11 baking dish:

1 1/2 cups self rising flour

1 1/2 cups sugar

1 1/2 sticks softened, room temp butter or margarine

Enough peaches to generously cover the bottom of the dish.

1 1/2 cups water

Sprinkle of cinnamon

Spray baking or casserole dish with non stick spray.

Peel and cut up (I like nice size chunks) enough peaches to almost, but  not completely fill up the dish.  I used about 10-12 peaches, depending on the size.  Sprinkle the fruit with cinnamon.  I give it a light covering.  Pour the water over the fruit, enough water (about 1 1/2 cups) to cover the bottom half of the fruit.

Mix flour, sugar, and butter together to form a crumbly topping.  You can use a pastry cutter but I use my hands.  The mixture should be a separated, pea like crumble.  Crumble the mixture over the fruit to cover completely.

Bake at 350 for about an hour, until top is golden brown. 

Its best eaten warm, with vanilla ice cream.  Yum....

For a smaller dish, you can cut back the amount of fruit, cut the dry ingredients back to one cup and one stick of butter, and one cup of water. 

This recipe is especially yummy in the Fall, with apples.  For an apple crisp I add more cinnamon for that apple cinnamon-y goodness.

Ahhhh, June...

June is my favorite month of the year.  Yes, I am the quintessential summertime girl.

Why I love June...

Long lazy days on the dock, swimming and boating.

Lightening Bugs

Blueberries

Hydrangeas

Magnolias

Jasmine on the lattice, and in the air.

Black Banks Creek, and crabbing.

Wearing the scent of sunscreen, and salt water.

Margaritas.

Skirts, shorts, and sandals.

Spanish moss and Resurrection ferns.

I love June, yes I do.

I'm at my best in June.

"If a June night could talk, it would probably boast it invented romance."

~ Bern Williams

Today is....

National Mint Julep Day!

from Google images

Believe it or not, this so southern girl has never had a mint julep.  I know, a sacrilege, right? 

But, for some reason, a few months back, and I do think I'll blame this on pinterest, I've been longing for a set of mint julep cups.  All the pretty pins I've seen on flower arrangements in mint julep cups have me seriously shopping.  I found these about a month ago, and have been playing the "Should I or Shouldn't I?" game....

                from Ross-Simons.com

                                             

I have a feeling that eventually I will...............

Also, coincidently, Damon Lee Fowler, one of my all time biggest Author crushes, posted a very tempting mint julep recipe on his blog a few weeks ago.  

I love Mr. Fowler...love him.  His Savannah Cookbook is one of my favorites.  Plus, his keen interest in historical southern cooking touches my very soul.  Being a lover of southern history, and cooking, his writings on the relationship of both just puts me over the moon.  But I digress....

Mr. Fowler posts his favorite mint julep recipe here, along with some very cool historical background of the South's signature cocktail, dating back to even Biblical times.  Makes me want to try a mint julep today...and well, it being National Mint Julep Day and all..... http://www.damonleefowler.com/blog.htm?post=853665